I Changed How I Run Discovery Calls.Now I Actually Listen.
I used to run discovery calls like I was checking boxes. I'd ask the standard questions, take notes, and then pitch. What I wasn't doing was listening for the thing the prospect couldn't quite articulate. That's where the real problem lives, not in what they say, but in what they're dancing around.
The shift came when I stopped treating it like a sales call and started treating it like research. I ask fewer questions now, but I ask them slower. I pause longer after they answer. I've noticed people fill silence with the truth. HubSpot's sales research shows that the best salespeople talk less and ask better follow-up questions, not the canned kind, but the curious kind that dig into the gap between what they want and what they've tried.
If you're running discovery calls and feeling like you're not getting real intel, the problem might not be your questions. It might be your patience. When you learn to sit with silence and actually listen for the unsaid part, the entire conversation changes.
On your next discovery call, try this: after someone answers a question about their biggest challenge, don't jump to the next question. Ask one follow-up: 'What have you already tried?' Then stop talking and listen to what comes next.
