I Changed How I Run Discovery Calls.Now I Actually Listen.
I used to run discovery calls like I was checking boxes. Ask the standard questions, take notes, pitch.
What I wasn't doing was listening for the thing the prospect couldn't quite put into words. That's where the real problem lives, not in what they say, but in what they keep circling.
The shift came when I stopped treating it as a sales call and started treating it as research. I ask fewer questions now, but slower, and I pause longer after each answer.
People fill silence with the truth. HubSpot's sales research shows the best salespeople talk less and ask better follow-ups, not the canned kind, the curious kind that dig into the gap between what someone wants and what they've already tried.
If your discovery calls aren't surfacing real intel, the problem might not be your questions. It might be your patience.
When you learn to sit with silence and listen for the unsaid part, the whole conversation changes, and that's usually where a good fit reveals itself or rules itself out. Either answer saves everyone time, which is the entire point of the call.
On your next discovery call, count to three in your head after the prospect finishes answering before you speak. The thing they add to fill that silence is usually the real reason they reached out. Write it down word for word.
